tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post111677096296131834..comments2023-10-29T09:34:54.428-04:00Comments on Code, Code World: Differing Viewpoints...Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07338910000372628114noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1117054574316302052005-05-25T16:56:00.000-04:002005-05-25T16:56:00.000-04:00This was very insightful. I appreciate hearing a ...This was very insightful. I appreciate hearing a man's opinion and you have really helped me to understand that maybe my hubby is not seeing what I see in myself.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing this with all the bloggers out there. I got here through Karyn, whom I saw through Pooh Corner.jenbeautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07304789117482763021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116814058361223712005-05-22T22:07:00.000-04:002005-05-22T22:07:00.000-04:00Thanks Blake, I knew I wasn't the only one!Firehaw...Thanks Blake, I knew I wasn't the only one!<BR/><BR/>Firehawk: "men were just big masses of performance anxiety with feet" - heh-heh.. perfect! You're also right about 'behavior' being far more important than physical changes... emotional distance is the single most difficult thing for me.. Thanks as always for reading, and your comments.Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07338910000372628114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116791567152940412005-05-22T15:52:00.000-04:002005-05-22T15:52:00.000-04:00I'd say that sketchy, distant, or angry behavior i...I'd say that sketchy, distant, or angry behavior is a lot more disturbing to most men than a few pounds or a wrinkle here or there.<BR/><BR/>On the subject of men caring about their appearance, too...that's very true. Not just appearance, but a lot of other issues. I once told a female friend that men were just big masses of performance anxiety with feet.<BR/><BR/>A change of pace, Bill. Good post.Patrick M. Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14366666601869757080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116784039800821292005-05-22T13:47:00.000-04:002005-05-22T13:47:00.000-04:00"Men don’t ‘see’ the physical imperfections in the..."Men don’t ‘see’ the physical imperfections in the woman in their life."<BR/>This is very true.blake.mcstravickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08083579702737343603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116783111685816142005-05-22T13:31:00.000-04:002005-05-22T13:31:00.000-04:00Not at all, I'm glad you liked it enough to do so!...Not at all, I'm glad you liked it enough to do so! Thanks!Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07338910000372628114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116779331362425302005-05-22T12:28:00.000-04:002005-05-22T12:28:00.000-04:00I linked your article to my blog...hope you don't ...I linked your article to my blog...hope you don't mind.Karyn Lyndonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13571088798286939007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116777850674973882005-05-22T12:04:00.000-04:002005-05-22T12:04:00.000-04:00*Exactly*!! In my opinion, the best time for the ...*Exactly*!! In my opinion, the best time for the clothes to come off is once you've decided you really want to be with a person. The 'zipless' encounters are nice... until you've had something more, well, 'involved'... and... Communication is the key to great 'toe-curling' sex for certainBillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07338910000372628114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9922132.post-1116777438978501492005-05-22T11:57:00.000-04:002005-05-22T11:57:00.000-04:00I have a couple of "older" single (one divorced, o...I have a couple of "older" single (one divorced, one widowed) friends who were lamenting that there was no way they would get naked with a man now that their bodies have "matured". I told them, "Believe me, the men are just as worried and insecure about thier bodies "maturing" as you are." You have proved my point. Thanks. Of course, I would think the secret to dating in the "declining years" is to develop a loving, secure relationship BEFORE the clothes come off. Come to think of it, that's true at any stage in life.<BR/><BR/>As far as communication, you are a fool not to tell your mate what curls your toes. Today is my parent's 50th wedding anniversary...that would be a freakin' long time to be having non-toe-curling sex (in my humble opinion) when all you would have to say is "could you move that a little to the left, honey? mmmm, yes, right there."Karyn Lyndonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13571088798286939007noreply@blogger.com